Phobias can present themselves in many forms, sometimes quite irrational
to our normal way of thinking and behaving. One thing they all have
in common however is that they are inappropriate to how we would like
to feel and react; and generally restrict you leading a normal life.
If you have taken time to read about the unconscious part of our minds
on my web site you will know that this is a very powerful and naturally
protective part of our make up as human beings. The unconscious part
of our mind reacts automatically and cannot identify what is presented
to it as real or imagined, which means it does not actually think or
reason . This means that sometimes the unconscious accepts things and
gets it wrong, this produces fear or upset because the unconscious is
conditioned to protect us and sees the inappropriate situation as threatening;
hence the irrational response which can accumulate to a phobia situation,
and the situation remains until the unconscious is otherwise advised.
As I mentioned
earlier many phobic situations to your conscious mind appear stupid or
irrational, which is all the more exasperating for people who suffer with
this situation as they do tend to be intelligent, rational and highly
imaginative people. Hypnotherapy is applied to 're-program' the unconscious
mind to adopt and maintain a normal reaction to any given situation. There
can be presenting reasons why you may have realised a phobic condition,
sometimes it may be fairly innocuous happening from an earlier experience
that has now become inappropriate for you in later life.
Because hypnotherapy
works with the unconscious mind in a very relaxing way to change things
that are no longer appropriate for us the 'irrationality' of the unconscious
is overcome and change is adopted in a very swift and effective way.
In my experience quite dramatic changes can be made in one session,
however, to effect permanent comfort and relief a number of sessions
are normally carried out along with self hypnosis training.
It may be worth
mentioning at this point that I have been successful with many clients
who had suffered for most of their life with phobic situations, some
enduring very lengthy treatment (many years in some cases) which had
slightly improved their situation but not alleviated or taken it away.
Some contacted myself firmly believing that they would have to live
with their condition for the rest of their lives and trying hypnotherapy
as the last resort as they had nothing to lose. It gave myself great
satisfaction to be able to effect very swift relief to them; a fact
they were very dubious about to begin with and they were obviously surprised
and delighted with the results.
I have listed some
of the more common phobias I have been presented with below. This is
by no means an extensive list and if you do have a particular situation
where you feel I may be able to help please do contact me by email,
post or telephone to discuss where I can be of help :
fear of flying; spiders
fear of the dark; motorway
driving;
dental phobia; delivering
presentations;
stage fright; interviews
fear of needles; fear
of feathers;